When you can wear a seatbelt without flinching, use the wheel in an emergency, and are not on sedation. For many people that is one to two weeks, longer if the pocket is under muscle.

What about the train?

Trains are possible earlier than cars if someone helps with bags and you can stand without grabbing overhead rails. Overhead rails are pec work. Do not treat them as furniture.

Sleeping, driving and returning to work after implants in Sydney

How to get out of bed, when to hold a steering wheel, and what a CBD commute does to a healing pec — a practical New South Wales calendar.

Surgery ends. Logistics begin. In Sydney the logistics are particular: a seatbelt across a tender chest, a steep terrace, a crowded train, a desk in an air-conditioned tower, a school pickup that involves lifting a child who has not signed your consent form.

This is the companion to the first six weeks. It is more boring, and more useful.

Sleeping: the long argument with your favourite side

Most surgeons want you on your back at first, a little elevated, pillows as customs officers. Side-sleeping returns later, stomach-sleeping last if at all in the early months. If you are a lifelong stomach sleeper, practise before the operation. People laugh at that advice until night three.

A recliner can be a better friend than a soft bed. So can a partner who is willing to be woken. Heat is a Sydney-specific nuisance: extra pillows in February are a second climate. Light cotton, the prescribed bra, and a fan are more use than a heavy quilt you then have to fight.

Numbness at the nipple or lower pole can make sheets feel strange. That strangeness is usually temporary. Sudden, severe, one-sided pain is not “strange”. It is a call.

Driving: the emergency-stop test

The legal and moral test is not whether you can start the car. It is whether you can brake hard, turn the wheel, and wear a seatbelt without hesitating. Hesitation is how fender-benders become stories that include your fresh pocket.

Passenger first. Driver later. If you take opioids, you are not driving. If you take only paracetamol and feel timid, wait. Paddington street parking is not a rehabilitation sport.

Rideshares and taxis have the same seatbelt. They spare you the wheel. They do not spare you the pothole on Cleveland Street. A small cushion between belt and chest can help if your surgeon allows it; do not defeat the belt.

The commute, itemised

Train and tram: possible earlier, if a friend carries the bag and you do not hang from the rail. Sit. Let teenagers stand.
Bus: same rules, plus sudden braking. Sit near the driver if you look fragile enough that someone will help.
Ferry: wind, steps, and a swell. Romantic, unnecessary in week one.
Walk from a car park: often underestimated. Distance is fine; carrying is not.

Work-from-home is a privilege and, for the first days, a medical appliance. Use it if you have it.

Work that is not a laptop

Teachers, nurses, hospitality, trades, childcare, retail: your return-to-work letter should name the tasks, not the industry. “Light duties” that include lifting a twenty-kilo box are fiction. Get the restrictions in writing for the employer who will pretend not to understand.

If you are self-employed — plenty of Sydney clients are — book the empty fortnight before you book the theatre. Pride is not a cash-flow plan.

Childcare and the household

A toddler is a live load. Arrange other adults. If you cannot, you may not be in a season for elective surgery. That sentence is unkind and it is kinder than a bleeding pocket.

Pets that leap at your chest are also live loads. The cat does not respect dual plane.

When the city can have you back socially

A quiet dinner at two weeks is not the same as a standing wedding with hugging. Hugging is a lateral force. Tell people to hug your hips or not at all. Australians will joke. Let them joke after they comply.

If you want the movement chapter, go to exercise. If you want the scar chapter, go to scar care. For now, treat sleep, seatbelts and shopping bags as the syllabus.

Heat, bras and the February problem

A prescribed bra in a Sydney heatwave is its own small climate. Follow the surgical rule anyway, then ask at review if a lighter second bra is allowed for the afternoon. Sweat is not an excuse to go without support in week two. It is a reason to have two garments and a washing machine.

If a bra seam sits on an incision, move the seam or change the garment. A well-placed fold scar can still be sabotaged by a badly placed underband.

School holidays, heatwaves and the unhelpful calendar

People book theatre next to a school holiday because childcare is easier, then discover that holidays are when children jump. People book in winter because heat is kinder to bras, then discover that a July desk job still involves a commute. There is no perfect month in this city. There is a month whose problems you have staffed.

If you cannot staff the first five days, you do not have a recovery plan. You have a hope.

What “desk work” hides

A desk that requires you to haul a display board, carry sample bags, or perform a cheerful physical job in retail is not a desk. Write the actual verbs for the employer and for yourself. The return-to-work letter should use those verbs. “Light duties” without verbs is how people re-injure a pec in week two and call it a mystery.

A closing note from this desk

Sydney will offer you stairs, rails, seatbelts and children. None of them have signed your consent. Staff the first days. Name the verbs of your job. Sleep on your back until you are told otherwise. Drive when you can stop in an emergency, not when you are bored.

If you live alone, paid help is part of the quote even if it does not appear on the hospital PDF. If you cannot fund that help, you may have the wrong month. There is no prize for an unstaffed recovery. There is only a pocket that needed a boring fortnight and did not get one.

Regional patients and the first nights in the city

If you usually live outside Sydney, stay close for the first nights. A beautiful property two hours away is not a retrieval plan. Book a dull hotel near the hospital and a human who can drive. Ferries, mountains and “we will see how we feel” are how people meet an emergency department as strangers.

Ask the rooms which suburb they want you in. Then obey it. Geography is part of consent when the pec is still a wound.

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